Author: Jen Manglos
-
Moonlight and Loneliness
Seeing a movie thematically focused on loneliness is not a great choice when you’re feeling lonely. In my defense, I was trying to make the most of my Christmas break by seeing as many award season films as I could, and “Moonlight” was supposed to be this gorgeous film. Still. I emerged feeling trapped in…
-
To the Women
On Sunday I celebrated Galentine’s (a day early). I invited some friends over for appetizers, drinks, and conversation. But more than some blood orange flavored drinks (they were so good), I wanted to acknowledge and recognize how amazing each woman was (and trust me, they really are amazing). Growing up, I have been pushed out…
-
Manchester by the Sea and Sticky Grief
Recently I have been thinking about my Aunt Linda. When I was little, she would take me out for my birthday – it was always such a special day. We would start at McDonald’s, make our way to the movies for the latest Disney film, and then make a final stop at a toy store,…
-
Hidden Figures and Sins of Omission
One day I was talking to some friends (one male and one female) from work about my experience as a female in that particular work place. I expressed my frustrations about how it felt like I could never advance, even though I had more education and experience than my male counterparts. There was never a…
-
La La Land and the Discipline of Celebration
I feel guilty saying this – 2016 didn’t suck for me. It was hard in a communal sense and I sat in the tension of tragedy after tragedy and wept. But it also was an incredibly redemptive year personally. Starting in 2014, I moved back in with my parents. I had a cancer scare. I…
-
What Formed You – 9/11
I still remember my dad knocking on my bedroom door that morning. I mumbled back that I was sleeping in – not running late. But he persisted in knocking and I heard the words “planes” and “Twin Towers”. In my sleepiness, I wondered how two planes could fly into these buildings, when it dawned on…
-
Fall Retreats
Sometimes life is so busy. Sometimes the realities of life weigh heavily on our hearts. Sometimes we just need to pause and re-set with Christ. Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in him! -Psalm 34:8, ESV Join me for a day of retreat, where we will…
-
Sustaining versus Regenerating
Sustaining is a word that I have used a lot as a spiritual director and minister in the church. How do we remain sustainable in Christ? As a person who burned out from ministry in her mid-twenties (I was on the fast track), I had to shift in how I operated. Burn out was a…